0rion85 wrote:
I know the basics of sail trim for depowering, less shape mean less power and drag. Out haul will be tight, main/"vang" (lol) needs to be tight as well, so play the traveler? Downhual tighter mean more shape right, or draft further forward creating more drag?
Mainsheet tight, downhaul (cunningham) tight induces more mast bend, moves draft forward and flattens the sail. An 18 also has a mast rotation bar, which is used to allow the mast to rotate ~70 degrees off of the longitudinal orientation, so that it bends on its minor axis. If you allow the mast to rotate more than 70 degrees, you make it easier to bend the mast & flatten the sail (and get a flatter sail as a result), whereas if you rotate it less, you'll get a fuller sail, at the expense of a poor entry to the wind (less rotation creates a "dimple" on the leeward/low pressure side of the sail.
If you've got too much power even with a tight mainsheet, outhaul & downhaul, travel out a few inches to a foot to bleed off some more power. If that proves to be too much still, furl the jib. After that you'd have to dump the mainsheet enough to spill air off the top of your sail and just use the bottom 3rd for power, but you'll definitely lose some pointing ability.
As srm said, ocean sailing can be very tricky & dangerous for a first sail on a new boat. That's why I was presupposing calm waves & light-moderate winds, and even then I'd stay in a protected harbor or near other boats so they can help if things go awry. I wouldn't try beach launching through the surf on your first sail, that's an artform unto itself.