ASDASC wrote:
I had little to no sailing experience when I bought my H16 used. I took it out myself the first few times in very little wind, maybe 5-7mph? I had a blast. It gave me time to think between the periods of chaos. All I did was focus on going out in a direction, then back to about where I started. Then I chose another point on the far shore and tried heading to that and back. It was a wonderful day figuring things out in the warm sun. I still have reservations about going out alone in higher winds, but when I have someone with me, I love going fast and thru 'just hold on' winds!
Like others have posted, find your comfort zone and stay within it. Stay safe.
My experiences have been very much like yours. A buddy of mine (an experienced sailor) took me out once and from then on, 95% of my experiences were solo. At first it would take me 3 hours just to rig my boat. I learned to sail in the ocean and would go out just a little further each time, tack, and then sail back to shore until one day, I sailed so far out that I couldn't see land. I think that was the closest I've ever felt to God. Those that have ever sailed the ocean know that when you look back at the shoreline, it all looks the same. Even in 25+ MPH winds and unbelievable swells, I've found sail trim to be the key. I'd found that I was able to dump as much wind as I needed to without considering the reefing of my sail. I'd discovered all this by accident. However, I'm not stupid. I always had a GPS and a VHF with me, just in case I had to call the Calvary. Like you said. Stay safe !!!