Pam,
I was afraid you were going to tell me that, so here's another idea. Have you perused the women's forum on KFS.com? Lots of good folks there, some of whom have husbands who DON'T fish (imagine that!), or are otherwise unattached. Unfortunately, most of them are from Central or South FL, but there are always lots of lurkers, so it might not hurt to post a general invite for anyone from NW FL to see what turns up. Just a thought--I know one has to be a bit careful with this stuff, but you don't have to give out any personal info to get started--just keep it informal via the KFS site. Here's a link to "Yak Fishin' Women" on KFS:
http://kfs.infopop.cc/eve/forums/a/frm/f/7051073151
Good luck!
Dick