Yanno, we can share stories till the cows come home, he will change his mind, or not.
But it will have to be HIS choice.
By trying to convince him to change his mind we are only annoying him, he made that clear in his second post.
I would encourage anyone that questions the collective wisdom of the poeple on these forum's to go to
http://www.thebeachcats.com and read the saga of Sven.
Long story short, he scoffed .... and died.
There is a REASON sailing instructions require PFD's be worn.
All that having been said, I'll share a personal story.
I used to drive a safety boat @ some of our local regatta's. One of our most competent sailors flipped and got trapped under the boat. Fortunatly we had a knife on board and were able to cut her loose and save her life.
She said what went thru her mind as she was trapped under the boat was that the very thing she had loved so much for all of her adult life was about to kill her.
She further said, "The idea of dying while doing something you love is over rated. You are still dead."
I NEVER step on my boat without a knife. I've never needed it, hope that I never will, but I still carry it in the pocket of my LIFEJACKET
Stephen