That's a good story spesce. Props to your dad for being out there with you. I hope to make it to 75 and still be riding bikes and sailing. I'm hooked on sailing but the lake nearby is not ideal. I have a pic to show. I can only dream of enough water to stay on tack for 2 miles.
I went out again today. Winds were about 8 knots, N NNW, and mostly steady so it was ok for me to single hand, my only choice right now. I'm not sure if I will go out again in heavy winds single handed until I have more experience. Plus I have issues with the jib blocks not standing up at all. And it's very hard for me to control the cleats. In light winds today I started out with the main only but brought out the jib after I became comfortable with the wind level. Still I was nervous for the first time yet, but calmed down after I realized I wasn't likely to capsize. It's not capsizing that gave me nerves, it was having no way to right the boat. BTW, there was nobody else on the lake today, so I really didn't want to capsize. I think I need a righting bag so I won't be concerned about getting the boat back up. Something else to learn.
Anyway, I know you guys scoff at 8 knot winds but I want to get more experience in tuning the boat and sailing before being blown wild in 20 knots like the other day. Right now I need a passenger, at the least, in those winds, but even the passenger would need to be agile and a bit brave. I made the mistake of telling my friend/crew about my wild single handed day and three capsizes and I think I scared him out of crewing. I told my brother the same tales and it just made him want to learn to crew with me. So I'm hopeful, but he has little time to go.
Here's the lake. The area here is rolling hills and the lake is somewhat narrow compared to what some have available for sailing. It's man made and the dam is in the lower right corner. The red dot in that corner is the location of the ramp, surrounded by rip rap except for a small area of sand nearby. I have to put the boat in and walk it around the rip rap to the small dirt area. A pain, but no charge.

The other red dot in the center right is where I had to turn back today. There is a new marina there and much to my surprise a triple high voltage line stretching across the lake from one side to the other. I couldn't believe it. This was the second time this far up the lake but last time the weather turned me back before I noticed the wires. The lake is full right now and I simply couldn't tell if I had clearance and no way was I going to push my luck with high voltage. I was bummed. I'm going to call the marina or the power company to see if I can learn what the clearance is on the power lines. I watched a pontoon go under with plenty of clearance of course but judging from that it looks like no more than thirty feet in the swag with the water up.
My bother lives on the lake in the upper left corner at the 257 symbol and I thought one day I would go all the way there. But today I wanted to make it to the upper right of the picture to the wider finger of the lake there. I was hoping to find a stretch there to tack for some distance with north wind. The narrow areas are more unpredictable and have steeper land areas that cause the wind to shift regardless of the prevailing wind.
It's 3.6 miles between the two red dots according the google ruler. I don't know how many tacks to get there but it was a lot, beating upwind. Even the east to west area was a pain because of the narrowness and steep land there. I never had wind abeam, always pointing for course made good. When I headed back it was downwind all the way and one forth the time to return. I beached on another small erosion patch on the opposite side from the ramp and ate my lunch and took a nap on the boat. Then headed back to the ramp and hauled out and de-rigged single handed of course.
I had fun but it was a work out. Which is good too.