You all are the best; thanks for the tips - they are welcome and appreciated!
KayakingBob: Your tip to turn 45 degrees to a strong wake was a game changer.
Chekika: Thank you for the video! As long as the waves aren't super choppy and coming at us from multiple angles, I look forward to feeling more comfortable taking on more challenging winds. We're still working out some stupid rookie mistakes. The other day, we almost left the dock but something didn't look right with the sail and I asked Robert to test letting it out all the way. Sure enough, it had somehow come unattached at the top of the mast. It was an easy fix -- on shore! Along those same lines, I believe we have FINALLY figured out which way to furl the sail so that the hook is on the outside when we put it away -- and the furling line is coming off the correct side when we put the mast back on the boat! <<<--- newbies!
RandomJoe: Thanks for the rudder info. There may very well be something going on with our rudder lines -- and we may NOT have had that rudder line cleated properly that day! We have experienced stiff steering, and I suspect that may be what's going on. THANK YOU! And your post makes me want to experience the ride from the front seat. I suspect the view of the amas and the feel of "tipping" really IS a whole lot different from that angle! That could be eye opening both from a learning perspective, but also to show Robert maybe I'm not as big a sissy as he thinks I am!
tonystott: We have a lot to learn about managing the sail. I read a lot, and Robert doesn't, and that puts us sometimes at odds between trying things that I've read NOT to do and him wanting to try everything and see what happens. Knowing that it's hard to really mess up will make it a lot more fun for both of us.
I will say after that experience capsizing the JY in class, I have no desire to repeat that in the middle of our deep water lake without an instructor and rescue boat at hand! Having said that, Robert reminds me that there is regular traffic on Muskegon lake and our jackets will keep us afloat for much longer than we would likely need in the event something really drastic were to happen. He really enjoys bouncing around and trying to push the boat to its limits (at least from his front seat!) I'm coming around, but tend to over-think and will need a bit more trial/error to get to where I'm really confident in the TI - and in our ability to stay out of trouble with it! Every time we take it further out under different conditions and manage to return back to the dock safely increases my desire to explore further and under more challenging conditions.
Thanks for letting me be a part of the discussion!