My wife and I get along fine in our Tandem Oasis, while most of our friends inspite of long time marriages refuse to get a tandem. So they have opted for Outbacks and Revos.
My wife has never liked small craft, as she often got seasick from the time the boat left the dock until she got back on the dock. Her water knowledge was zero, and she would not consider getting two Hobies. We got the Oasis.
Sometimes, depending on her mood, anything I can say or ask often gets turned around, ignored or the opposite/unwanted reaction happens.
So the first time we were trying to launch our Oasis, I held it steady on the port side while she got in. Then, I told, her to lean to her right as I started to get in on the port side. She was in one of those contrary moods and leaned to the port side, as I started to get in on the port side, and the yak flipped over.
She learned that her PFD worked, and she floated fine. I steadied her, and grabbed the Oasis. Then, we grabbed everything that was floating and turned the Oasis right side up. We put everything back in the Oasis, and she said "Lets try it again!"
I said, "Fine if you listen to me, if you don't this will happen over and over!"
She listened, and we haven't come close to tipping it since then.
The only consistent problem at first was her inability to realized how slow the Oasis goes versus her Lexus. We worked on that last year, and she stopped worrying about stuff in the water 200-500 yards away. She has actually got very good at distance judging. A couple we have been friends with over 3 decades had to go to single yaks, because the wife constantly overestimated the yak's speed and under estimated how far a potential hazard was.
PS: Thanks for your tales of woe re your Oasis loading it and on solo trips. I'm sure that would be repeated by me if I tried our Oasis solo. I will probably be getting an Outback or Revo for my solo trips and fishing. At this time, I'm leaning to the Revo. Yesterday, we were at a party and the host couple had just bought two Outbacks. The husband showed me his conversion of a jet ski trailer into a bi OB hauler, great job.
He let me take one of the OB's off the trailer move it around and away, return it to load it back on, and load it back on. I had no problem. His BIL was watching and tried it with similiar results. His BIL owns a Revo and commented, that his Revo was even easier to get on and off his roof rack. His wife wanted the Outback, and he told her due to his bad back she had to load it on and off their roof rack by herself or get an adult child or grandkid to help. They have a large/sturdy 12 year old grandson, and he helps her load and unload her Outback. He has no problems solo loading/unloading their Revo, but he needs some help with the Outback.
fusioneng wrote:
sundancer:
We had a 2007 Oasis that we traded in for our Tandem Island last year. We had over 500 happy miles on the Oasis when we traded it in (no regrets). I'm in my 60's and not in the greatest shape, my main complaint about the oasis was when I got tipped over in rough seas /deep water by a powerboat wake I couldn't get back into the boat and got exhausted trying as I was being carried out to sea by the strong current, fortunately my now favorite wife (since she saved me) came to my rescue with the Revolution and helped me get back onboard the Oasis, once I was safe she headed back to shore and beat me back by 30 minutes. Even though we had practiced many times in our pool boarding the kayaks before ever going in the ocean, it's not the same as when in rough conditions. The Oasis sits pretty high and is fairly narrow, in my opinion much more tipsy than the Revolution, AI, or TI. Our Oasis was also very awkward to get on top of our car because there was no good place to grip it while loading, I actually injured my back badly trying to load the Oasis on top of our car and was not able to Kayak for 6 months. Believe it or not I actually find it easier to load our TI which is 3 ft longer and 25-30 lbs heavier because I can grab the lifting handles when hoisting up. To make a long story short (too late), we don't use our tandem kayaks in tandem as often as we thought we would, my wife would rather kayak alone on her Revo. 80% of the time I would be solo in the Oasis really unable to even come close to my wife as far as keeing up with her, her boat is clearly twice as fast as my solo Oasis, she would sail around me in tight circles taunting me to keep up. There is a reason they call tandem kayaks 'divorce boats'. People just smile when we go by yelling at each other, ( we are opposite personalities) if I yell go left, she says no I want to go right, then boom we hit the shoal, (it happens all the time). With separate boats we go out together and lash the boats together holding hands, and smiling), what she didn't realize holding my hand lovingly was she was dragging me along, there was no way I could even begin to keep up with her revo with me driving the Oasis. Now we have the Tandem Island (in kayak mode) the TI is even faster than the Revolution even solo, and paddles much straighter. We still have the same problem being together in the same boat but at least now I can keep up with her if we have two. You mentioned going solo most of the time, if it were me I would start with a Revolution (it's by far the best Kayak on the market today) and add a second one later, If you want to go out together just rent the second one for a while to you are sure. If you have two boats try my 'lets hold hands ploy' if she starts leaving you in the dust (it's humiliating when they circle around you taunting). The Revo is much harder to tip than the Oasis and much lighter, faster, easier to car top etc, etc, etc. An added bonus is the Revo is a fishermans dream, my older Oasis had little storage and would flip over if I tried to cast over the side (actually happened several times, to be fair, most other Oasis fishermen typically put heavy ballast in the hull, I never did, except the keel weight when sailing, but thats another story)). Also to be fair the newer Oasis (2011) is much better, in my opinion the older Oasis's were a POS.
There is no comparison to Ocean Kayaks when compared to Hobies, Hobies are the best there is nothing else on the market that compares and are well worth the extra.
Bob