I have a very annoying problem with the shackle that connects my main block to the traveler car.
The block (original 1981 H18 seaway block) connects to the traveler car with a stamped shackle. Every time I go sailing, I end up with the shackle twisted/bent.
I don't notice anything wrong with the block itself, and the cylinder at the foot of the block to which the shackle attaches is rotating freely without any friction. I have tried a stronger bow shackle but I get the same results (to the point where it is very hard to unscrew the shackle pin).
Is this a known design flaw, or is there something wrong with my setup?
Here are 4 pictures that illustrate the problem



