Gentlemen,
Ever since I discovered that all my friends were cowards (after I bought my boat), I made up in my mind that I was going to sail, come hell or high water. Having to sail (and rig) solo, I had to come up with a way to rig my boat by myself.
To step the mast, I added a 8 foot piece of line (with clips on both ends for quick connections) to the jib forestay, looped it around the bridle and then to a cleat I added to the mast. After hand raising the mast, I tensioned and cleated that line til the mast was stable. I like a tight forestay so I use a "furniture clamp" to tighten the forestay all the way, then pin it to the bridle. I use a Aussie halyard so bear in mind the jib hasn't even been raised yet. This is all done in the parking lot, so I still have to tow the boat to the beach (sand).
I then connect my jib to the Aussie halyard, adding the required tension. By the time the jib is raised, there's not much slop in the forestay. It tool me awhile to figure all this out but like mgdann said, even with a crew, I always solo raise my mast and it's so much easier and quicker. No need for instructions to an inexperienced crew. If you make sure that any wind is coming directly from the stern, there will be no problem. As a matter of fact, the wind can help a little. Not once have I had a problem stepping my mast solo !!!
